Radical grace
The Code isn’t about “fixing” yourself.
It’s about remembering yourself, loving yourself and the honesty of healing.
These 8 truths are companions for the road. They’re not rules, but reminders: to release false burdens, trust the flow, grow through fire, choose meaning first, meet yourself with kindness, protect your balance, honour all your selves, and accept your becoming.
Made into a Way of Life
Release False Burdens
You are not what others projected onto you. The pain and blame you carried were never yours to hold. Healing begins when you set that weight down, and love takes root when you finally declare: this was never mine.
Trust the Flow
People, moments, and emotions are meant to move. Gripping tight only feeds fear; letting go creates space for truth. Love thrives in freedom, held with open hands, never clenched fists.
Grow Through Fire
Adversity is not a detour, it’s a forge. The storms you’ve walked through are shaping you into something truer and stronger. Love honours the scars as proof you chose to live.
Choose Meaning First
Happiness flickers, but meaning holds. Anchoring yourself to values gives direction when feelings shift. Love shows up as the steady choice to build a life that lasts beyond moods.
Meet Yourself with Kindness
You give others grace and you deserve the same. Healing requires turning empathy inward, speaking to yourself like someone worth loving.
Love says: of course you hurt, and I love you still.
Protect Your Balance
Rest is not abandonment; overwork is not devotion. Balance is an act of courage, a declaration that your wholeness matters. Love protects your limits as fiercely as it fuels your drive.
Honour All Your Selves
You are not just one identity, you’re a constellation. Every facet, every season of you belongs. Love welcomes them all, the mess, the mystery, and the magic.
Accept Your Becoming
You are not broken — you are unfolding. Healing is not about fixing flaws, but embracing yourself as you are. Love whispers: you are already worthy.
I acknowledge the Wurundjeri people of the Kulin Nation, the Traditional Owners & Custodians of the land which I stream as well as the Traditional Owners & Custodians of any other lands which I create any content on. I recognise their continuing connection to land, water and community. I pay my respects to their Elders past and present.
Sovereignty has never been ceded. Always was, always will be Aboriginal land.
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